Got a word or phrase you don't understand? Not all these words have anything to do with being LGBT but it's always worth increasing your knowledge.
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69.
Simultaneous fellatio, belly to belly, head to tail. Also applies to a similar position for heterosexual couples.
Anal.
Anal sex. Taking it up the rear.
Auto-erotic.
Being attracted to people who look like yourself, or being sexually attracted to yourself.
B & D.
Bondage and Discipline or Bondage and Dominance
Bareback (BB).
Screwing without using condoms.
Bear.
A hairy person, with beard, big and heavy.
Blowjob.
To suck or lick a guy's cock usually until he has an orgasm. You don't literally blow on anything.
Bondage.
Tying up with ropes or leather restraints or handcuffs as part of sex.
Bottom.
Description of a general sexual position. A "bottom" prefers being penetrated over being the pentrator. He is still called the bottom even if he positions himself above his partner or if he is the one doing most of the moving.
Breath control.
A sexual practise involving asphicication to control your breathing. Can be very dangerous.
Buggery.
A legal term covering both screwing and bestiality.
Bull dyke.
A agressive butch lesbian.
Butch.
A very masculine lesbian.
CBT.
Cock and Ball Torture. Use of leather bindings.
Chicken.
A gay teenager. In Chinese culture, a female prostitute.
Chicken queen.
Someone who prefers teenage sexual partners.
Chubby chaser.
Someone who prefers fatter sexual partners.
Chubies.
Someone who the chubby chasers would like.
Closet Case.
Person who pretends to be straight.
Cock ring.
A metal or leather ring that wraps around the base of the penis. It is used to maintain or increase an erection. Also decorative.
Cottage.
Term for a cruisy washroom.
Cruising.
Going out looking for sex.
Cut.
To be Circumcised.
Cyber Sex.
Enagaging in sexual talk or webcam with another individual.
Dildo.
An artificial penis to use in screwing or masturbation. A dildo does not have a vibrator.
Discreet.
A promise not to mention your existence to others. It implies the person lives with others who do not know he is gay, and wants you to be careful in how you word any messages you leave.
Diva.
Someone who appears strong willed and confident to the point of arrogancy. Also a term for a famous female icons.
Doggie style.
Screwing with one partner on all fours, and the other screwing from behind.
Dogging.
Having sex in public places, particularly if the onlookers applaud.
Drag king.
A biological female who wears male clothing. Her internal gender identity may be male or female. Her sexual preference may be for males, females or both.
Drag queen.
A biological male who wears female clothing, often campy, glamourous or extreme for the stage. His internal gender identity may be male or female. His sexual preference may be for males, females or both.
Dyke.
A lesbian. Normally of the butch variety.
Dykon.
A lesbian icon.
Eat.
Rim vigorously or any sexual activity that uses the mouth.
Electro.
Stimulation using electric shocks.
Exhibitionist.
Somebody who likes others to watch when he has sex or somebody who likes displaying himself without a partner.
Fag hag.
any hetero female who surrounds themselves with gay men.
Felch.
To suck semen from the anus, and return it to mouth of the person being screwed.
Fellatio.
The medical term for giving blow jobs.
Fem / Femme.
The more feminine partner in a lesbian relationship.
Fist fucking.
To put the entire hand, and sometimes part of the forearm, often rubber gloved, into the anus of another. The hand is held in a cone shape to insert, so it is not literally fist fucking.
Fisting.
See above.
Frottage.
Rubbing bodies together, perhaps with some oil, from the French frotter "to rub".
Fuck.
To screw. Fuck has a raunchier connotation that screw. It connotes focussing primarily on the physical sensations, less on love, or concern for your partner's pleasure. Some people use it simply as an more earthy synonym for screw without those connotations.
Gaydar.
The ability of gays to tell if others are gay, even when they are in the closet. The biggest give away is eye contact. Straight men only make eye contact when they are preparing to fight. The biggest give away for lesbians is sensible shoes.
Gaylights.
An unnatural highlighting of the hair that no straight man would be caught dead with.
Glory holes.
A hole in a which one partner can put his penis through for anonymous sex.
Golden shower.
Urinating on a partner.
Gym Bunny.
A description characterized by a person's uncommon affection with the gym. Often gay men will become "gym bunnies" to sculpt a body that will be more attractive to other gay men. The level of fitness they often acquire is an unexpected advantage.
Head.
Another word for giving oral sex.
Jailbait.
A boy under the age of consent.
Lipstick lesbian.
Ultra femme lesbian.
Masochism.
Enjoys verbal or physical mistreatment or pain.
Muscle Mary.
Males very much into the gym scene with overtly pronounced muscles.
One Night Stand.
A very short-term relationship, the end of which is signified by someone putting on their pants.
Oral.
Using the mouth to perform stimulating sexual acts.
Philson Sex.
Sexual activity in which all parties involved desire an orgasm, but none of the involved parties reach climax. This enables one to have a one night stand without actually becoming classified as a whore, yet often more intense than cuddling.
Phone sex.
Having overtly sexual conversations over the phone which normally involve both partners masterbating.
Prince Albert.
A metal ring worn through a piercing on the underside of the tip of the penis.
Rice queen.
Someone who prefers people whose ancestry was the east part of Asia.
Rim.
To lick the anus of another, and possibly to insert the tongue into the anus.
S & M.
Not to be confused with the highstore chain. See Sadism and Masochism.
Sadism.
Enjoyment of inflicting pain.
Sauna.
Hot steamy place often found in gyms. Gay sauna's are often just places people go to have sex.
Scat.
Sexual activity involving feces.
Screwing.
To put your usually lubricated penis in a guy's ass. The insertor is called the top and the insertee is called the bottom, even when the guy being screwed is physically on top. The term implies slightly more emotional involvement than fucking.
Spanking.
Slapping (prehaps with a purpose made paddle) of the bum.
Submissive.
The non-dominant parter in an S & M relationship.
Top.
Description of a general sexual position. A "top" prefers being penetrating over being the pentrated. He still called the top even if he lies still and his partner does all the moving.
Troll.
Typically a much older gentleman that does not strike one as being particularly attractive. Often a "troll" is searching solely for sexual relations.
Twink.
A cute young male. Derived from Twinkie bar; one who is golden, cream-filled and ready to be eaten.
Vanilla.
Plain ordinary sex namely oral and anal.
Versatile.
Likes to both screw and be screwed.
Voyeurs.
People who like to watch others having sex / like to be watched having sex.
Water Sports.
Sexual activites involving urine.
Whore.
Anyone who has more sex than you.